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“Hey Gen Y, Thanks for Coming to Work Today”
Written by Buddy Hobart on December 14th, 2009
During a recent conversation someone mentioned my work pertaining to Gen Y. Someone spoke up and said that she works for a major (well known, so it will remain nameless) corporation that is receiving “Gen Y training”. Then she said, to my amazement, that they are being taught not to reprimand Gen Y if they are late to work or a meeting. She jokingly, at least I think it was jokingly, said they are being taught to “bite their tongue” and thank the Y’er for showing up today! (The more I think about the conversation, the more I don’t think she was joking). It is these kinds of conversations that further drive home several Gen Y myths.
When we talk about creating alignment we never talk about making these kinds of accommodations, or any accommodations, for that matter. There are certain principles that must be upheld. Respecting someone’s time is critical to alignment. If accommodations are made for Gen Y, then either the other generations will resent them or simply assume tardiness is acceptable. That is a dangerous road that can only lead to conflict and lack of productivity.
There is another way to address tardiness from a Gen Y’er. First of all, thanking them for showing up at all is not even an option. What is the best option is timeless leadership. There are four points I would ask any leader to consider:
1. Generation Y views time a bit differently than previous generations. Their world is a 24/7 world. The lines between leisure, work, hobbies, etc are blurred. It is just as likely that a Gen Y’er, sitting at a coffee shop at 11pm typing away on a laptop, is working on a work project as it is that they are addressing a personal matter. Time is viewed very differently. A Boomer working at 11pm is “burning the midnight oil” and “working overtime”. A Y’er is simply working. There is no consideration for the time of day, nor is it viewed as an inconvenience.
2. It is a natural tendency for all generations to assume their view is shared by everyone. Since Gen Y views time differently, it is human nature for them to assume others see it the same way. This is not a selfish thing, it is just reality. If a leader does not step up to help add perspective to the situation, then there is no reason for a Y’er to even think something is wrong. This is where timeless leadership is needed.
3. If a leader takes a moment to explain the why of the situation, I believe their Gen Y employee will get the message and understand the ramifications of tardiness. While Gen Y may not respect time, they do respect others. Tardiness is a sign of disrespect. If someone is late for a meeting or work, the (possibly unintended) consequence is that everyone else believes their time is not respected. If I am waiting for someone who is late, my natural reaction is to think that person feels their time is more valuable than mine. Leaders…..take some time to mentor and lead!
4. My final point is a bit more pointed. There will be people of every generation who push their boundaries to see what they can get away with. If the disregard for norms is tolerated, people will push even further to see where the boundary ends. I know of several situations where too much slack was granted to Gen Y’ers on issues like timeliness. After several frustrating months for the co-workers, the employee left anyway. When we interviewed the departing Gen Y’er we learned that there was a lack of respect for leadership because they were never approached for “breaking the rules”. If, once addressed, someone continues to be late for work or meetings (of any generation) corrective action must be taken. Thanking them is not one of the options!
Gen Y is looking for leadership. Give it to them. You will have more engaged employees, who will look to stay with a good leader.
What do you think? Are many other companies out there thanking Gen Y for coming to work late? Please send comments to bhobart@solutions-21.com.
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